A sharp alarm. An icy cold shower. A slice of peanut butter toast downed with a hot cup of Nepali milk tea.
And we’re off!…
…to Ratna Park, ready to begin our adventure, as haphazardly pieced together as my luggage.
I work for a small Nepal NGO called INFO Nepal. They arrange placements all over Nepal for foreigners who come here to volunteer. My duty that morning, as thrown upon me by my boss the day before, was to bring a volunteer to our newest placement – a school in the little village of Mude, in Solokhumbu.
With only this piece of information in hand, I boarded the bus to Jiri.
At the beginning of a journey, there’s always a hint of excitement in the air. Had I known the great journey to come, perhaps that excitement would have been tinted with nervousness, apprehension, and fear as well.
A bright clear morning spent on the roof of the buss turned into a rainy and stuffy afternoon inside the bus – packed like sardines with all the locals taking cover from the rain. Jiri couldn’t have arrived too soon.
That evening, sitting in the common room of the lodge, sipping on cup after cup of amazingly aromatic tea, we met two Englishmen (both named Richard) beginning a trek to Everest Base Camp the next day.
Where were we going, they asked.
“Mude,” I replied.
“Where’s that?”
“Ummmm….. I don’t exactly know.”
Thus began the tast of the evening – finding Mude – made no less complcated by the fact that in that area of Nepal are no less than 3 “Mude”s. One we had passed on the bus to Jiri – so it couldn’t be that one we were looking for. The other was at least a 10 day walk away – I HOPED it wouldn’t be that one.
After a heated debate with Jiri’s locals (as well as impressing the Richards with our organizational skills), who all isisnted this “10 day away” Mude was the Mude, we decided to ignore them and leave the next day in search of our Mude, which my boss had told me was a 3-5 day walk from Jiri.
The next morning, after accidentally waking up an hour early and arguing amongst ourselves over what time it really was, our group (which now encompassed myself, Andrea (our volunteer), Kamal (staff member), Tenzin (friend along for the ride), the two Richards, and two porters) finally embarked upon our trek to find Mude.
The first two days, I was feeling great. My bike rides and basketball practices had obviously come in handy as I now found myself in much better shape than the time I’d tried to trek to Guandruk only nine months earlier.
The rest of my crew, however, were not having my luck – knee problems, pulled groins, and sore calves disrupted the moods of my co-trekkers. The only thing they all seemed to be looking forward to was lunch and the evening – in other words, the only moments they weren’t walking!
In fact, though, lunches and evenings were quite fun! We would sit down around noon, after having walked up and down steep and muddy hills for four hours, down a few cups of tea and swigs of water, and wait for daal bhaat, our appetites growing by the second! We’d talk about the difficult parts of the trek, and look in Richard’s guidebooks to see what type of trek was to come. In the evenings, after having washed the day’s sweat off ourselves and our clothes (believe me, there was a LOT of it!), we would all sit around the fire at relax. One Richard (nicknamed Doc because he’s an acupuncturist) would be busy heeling his body with various forms of Chinese medicine, while the other Richard was with Andrea over their new age-type philosophy on life. The four Nepali boys would chat away in Nepali as I soaked it all in.
We were becoming quite the family, which is one amazing, and I think inevitable, side effect of trekking. We all supported each other, helping out those who were having pain or feeling tired and goofing around with those keeping pace with us as we trekked up and down those endless “hills” (more like mini mountains I’d say).
Besides minor aches and pains, all was going too well to be true (especially for me, who had yet to experience even sore muscles!).
Until the 4th morning…
I woke up that morning in Lamjurala, 120m lower than the highest point in our trek (3500m). It had rained all night and I had slept very poorly and I was feeling generally unwell. At first I thought that perhaps I was simply experiencing altitude sickness, especially as each step higher became more and more difficult. But once we began our descent and my illness didn’t go away, my instinct was confirmed – I had come down with the flu.
Looking back, the next six hours have a dreamlike quality similar to what limbo must be like. Putting one foot in front of the other was my only focus – and believe me, it was difficult. There were times when I wanted to give up, when I fell upon the ground in tears and begged the others to go on without me. I could have curled up on the muddy, rocky ground and been perfectly content. Even sitting took too much energy – how was I supposed to walk up and down slippery, muddy moutains?
Finding Mude
Junbesi was so far away as to not even exist. Every local that we passed would tell us that Junbesi was 30 minutes away…. Well, Junbesi was 30 minutes away for 4 hours. It was only with the kindness and concern of my trekking friends that I am not still sitting on the path between Lamjurala and Junbesi. And when Junbesi did finally come into sight, rather than feeling relieved, I began to cry once again – it was still SOOOO far away; all the way down at the center of the valley that we were looking down upon.
Left foot, right foot, repeat ad infinitum.
Upon arrival to our guest house, I was immediately brought up to my room, where I slept until 8am the next morning. I vaguely remember people coming in and out of the room, checking on me and asking me to eat something. I wasn’t interested in eating – hell, I didn’t even bother taking off my sunglasses or trekking clothes before passing out in bed!
The next day was wonderful. I was able to stay in bed and relax – such a different experience than only 24 hours earlier. Everything was perfect save for the next day’s inevitable trek looming over me like a storm cloud.
But the next day came, and I walked. Carefully and slowly, but I did it. Finally reaching Mude was a glorious feat for me after one of the most challenging days in my life so far. I was finally at my destination! I had made it!
Mude itself, though, is fairly unceremonious. A small village a day’s walk from electricity, it consists of a school and half a dozen houses resting on a steep hill. I recall thanking my lucky stars that I wasn’t the one spending 6 weeks here!
We went immediately to the school, which was not at all what I was expecting. It was beautiful! Made of nicely sanded and polished wood, with enough classrooms, a huge library with books, maps, and games… This school stuck out in such a remote village like a sore thumb! (I found out later that it was entirely funded by a couple from Holland).
We spent the next two hours meeting the teachers and students. Strangely, at 10:30am, the teachers had not yet entered their classrooms to start the day’s lessons. This was not the only problem here. The English teacher spoke only Nepali to the students, resulting in the students’ complete inability to say more than, “Hello” and “I am fine.” I don’t want to get started on the education system here, though – that can be the subject of another blog entry…
After visiting the school, we went to visit the host family. They live a half hour from the school in a traditional Nepali village home – no shower, no electricity, no toilet. Yet, the house was clean, the food tasty, and the family nice. I felt good about leaving our volunteer with them.
After chatting with the family for a while, we went to visit a school in a town called Patale, an hour away from Mude. The school there hadn’t been funded by foreigners and needed lots of help in my opinion. They were also very eager to have volunteers and had lots of ideas as to what they would do with them – I will definitely be sending volunteers there in the future.
That evening was a cozy, joyous one at home with the host family. Food being made, tea being brewed, songs being sung. Icing on the cake.
The next morning we had to say goodbye to our volunteer Andrea. I gave her a hug, wished her luck, and told her to call if she needed anything. She seemed a bit nervous that we were leaving her in this village in the middle of nowhere with no other foreigners or English speakers… I would have been nervous too…. But she’s a strong lady and I am positive she is doing just fine.
We visited one more school an hour away in the lovely village of Thingnasa. Another totally neglected school, another one to send volunteers to. I have a feeling there are hundreds, if not thousands, of schools in Nepal that could use our volunteers… A sad realization.
That day was a happy day for me. My boss agreed to fly me back from Phaplu, only a day’s walk from Mude. It ended up being cheaper to do so, so it was easy to convince him. That meant that this was my last day of walking and that the next morning, I would be in my apartment, watching Prison Break and eating pizza!!! Thus, even though I was still feeling sick and weak, I managed to find enough energy to walk to Phaplu by nightfall. A plate of momos, a can of beer, a good night sleep, and a flight home – all good medicine to cure anything that ails you.